Sex as Performance
For so many people, sex can feel like a performance, a duty, or something we SHOULD do—rather than something rooted in authentic, embodied pleasure. Let’s talk about why this happens...
40 Reasons to Have Sex—It’s Not Just About Getting Off
There are lots of reasons to want to have sex—and for most of us, it’s not because we’re horny. One of the BIGGEST CHALLENGES for long-term couples comes in the...
Sex and Psychedelics: Pathways into Sacred Sexuality
As two sensual explorers committed to building a deeply erotic life, my partner and I choose to consciously and ritually use psychedelic and empathogenic medicines in our relationship. These substances...
Watch: Become a Masterful Lover
My free, online monthly Mindful Sex workshops allow you to taste the magic of sacred sexuality and explore a range of topics. This work is a offering to the world,...
The Erotic Thread: Connection to Self & Other
The erotic thread is how we connect our last sexual experience with our next sexual experience. You can also think of it as the ‘simmer—’ how to keep your waters...
Pleasure is Nourishment: A Podcast Interview with Kiss & Tell Magazine
I was interviewed on the Kiss & Tell Podcast last week, and got to talk about all things sex & pleasure with the kind and brilliant hosts, Dr. Jenny &...
Big Time Sensuality: Take Yourself on a Pleasure Date
Self-pleasure can (and should be) a regular and healing practice for you and you alone. Not only is it fun, joyful, and healing for our bodies, it helps us better...
Four Foundations of Mindful Sex
Welcome to Mindful Sex: four foundational tools that will transform your sex life.
Men’s Conscious Sexuality Gathering: January Notes // Desire & Initiation
My Men's Conscious Sexuality Collectives are a way to learn and grow your skillset and relational mindset so that you can be the best lover! These are the notes from...