Holistic Sex & Relationship Coach

Reclaim your pleasure. Deepen your connection.

For midlife women who are done having sex for everyone else, and ready to own their sexuality.

Awakening desire, healing shame, and building profound intimacy for women and those who love them.

We are nature—wild and free.

Sexual healing isn’t about fixing what’s broken. It’s about remembering that you are already whole. My work weaves together the wisdom of the body, the earth, and the erotic—connecting mind, body, sex, and spirit into one integrated experience of being fully alive.

Meet Andrea

Awakening and unfolding over decades...

My holistic approach to sex and relationship coaching blends embodiment work, Urban Tantra® and VITA coaching methodologies, yoga, sex education, and inclusive, science-backed sex education—all delivered with warmth, humor, and zero judgment.

My roots in food, farming, and cooking taught me that our bodies are ecosystems—wild, interconnected, and deserving of tending. I bridge holistic healing of mind, body, sex, and spirit so that you can become more awakened, more free, more true, and more YOU.

Urban Tantra® Certified
VITA Sex, Love & Relationship Coach
Sex Educator
LGBTQ+ Affirming
The Nerdy Tantrika

Sound Familiar?

You're craving more—but something feels blocked

Disconnected from your body, desires, and power
Carrying shame about sex, feeling numb or disconnected
Struggling to communicate with your partner
Feeling like intimacy has become routine
Wanting to explore but not sure how to start

There's Another Way

Imagine feeling fully alive in your body

Deep confidence in your desires and boundaries
Freedom from shame and past stories
Intimate, honest conversations with partners
Practices that awaken sensation and presence
A richer, more expansive experience of pleasure

Ways to Work Together

Individuals

$200

Per Session

Individual Coaching

Thoughtfully held space for one, to dive deep into your sexual healing. Whether we're working with shame, identity, relationship, or pleasure, I'm here as a wise, supportive guide.

Individual coaching sessions are 90 minutes
Online via Zoom
As a coaching client, you will also get delicious homework and home play resources.
My coaching toolkit includes somatics, breath, sex education, desire mapping, tantra, kink, and erotic mysticism.
All identities & orientations welcome, always

Book a Discovery Call

Couples

$250

Per Session

Couples Coaching

Customized, healing sex & relationship coaching for couples. Together, we work towards connection, repair, healing, and expansion. We meet online, and we move at your pace, with deep focus on your individual and partnership goals.

Couples coaching sessions are 90 minutes
Online via Zoom
Delicious homework and home play resources to deepen and expand your learnings
Three entities in your relationship (you, me, we) and we work with all of them
All identities & orientations welcome, always

Book a Discovery Call

Individuals & Couples

$99

Per Session

Tantra Mini Sessions

A beautiful set container for your pleasure and embodiment. One hour, one holistic practice to explore. Come home to yourself, or reconnect with your beloved. This is real, embodied work that you carry home with you.

Tantra Mini Sessions are 1 hour
Online via Zoom
A range of practices to choose from
All identities & orientations welcome, always

Schedule a Tantra Mini Session

Individuals & Couples

$500+

Per Immersion

Couples Immersions & Private Workshops

Do you want a deep-dive into sexuality and relationship magic? Create a custom immersion (also called a private workshop) for 3 or more hours. Topics and pricing to be agreed upon.

A long-form immersion is the deepest way to connect to your sexuality, sensuality, and relationship.
Option to add Christopher for dual facilitation
Optional in-person, to be determined.
One of the most powerful things to you do for yourself and your relationship.
All identities & orientations welcome, always

Book a Discovery Call

Everybody

$45+

Per event

Events & Workshops

Each month there are tons of events to explore, both online and in-person. Some are drop-in events, and others are part of a workshop series.

Many events are beginner-friendly
Tantra Date Night Series, Love in Adulthood Series, and many more delicious one-off workshops
Online + in-person events in the Bay Area
Events focus on Tantra, perimenopause, relationships, desire, and more!
All identities & orientations welcome, always

See All Events

Everybody

$5-$25

Per Month

The Pleasure Collective

Online pleasure education! This is my own private (uncensored) membership community with sexuality education, masterclasses, workshops, workbooks, and more.

Monthly 'office hours' for members + Q&A, discussion boards, and conversation
Shame-free, pleasure-forward, trauma-informed.
Tons of resources from my years of content creation, on-demand
Workshops, masterclasses, 'quickies,' and long-form educational content.
All identities & orientations welcome, always

Join

Everybody

$45+

Per Practice

On-Demand Practices

Some of my most incredible offerings are available as standalone, on-demand items. Incredible guided practices, awakening breathwork practices, and workbooks to get really deep.

Mindful erotic practices for all bodies
Ecstatic Breathwork
Tantric Massage for all bodies
Deeper dive workshop replays
And always more being added!
All identities & orientations welcome, always

On-Demand Practices

Everybody

Free

and deliciously wise

Pleasure Musings

Each week I create deliciously sex-positive content on Substack for free. Come browse, read, and learn from the Sex Witch.

New content each week for free
Long-form writing, audios, and more.
Erotic embodiment, pleasure as power, mindful sexuality, conscious relationships.
Read online or in-app
Relationship wisdom for everybody

"My partner and I had a session with Andrea and it was everything we could've hoped for—and more. At one point we felt like giggly school kids, gazing into each other's eyes and feeling genuinely excited to explore the realms of Tantra. Andrea's approach to connection is lighthearted and playful, yet deeply insightful." LM, California

"The advice you gave me has opened me up in ways I couldn't ever imagine. Thank you for asking provocative questions." DN, Honolulu

"Witnessing your dreams made manifest and us all benefiting from that loving. The event was live, communal, authentic, playful, and safe. Well done, Loved Ones." TP, Kapaa

"I had a sincere desire to work on these things on my own, but I'm finding it makes a huge difference to have a coach. Thanks for your empathy and professionalism." DM, Honolulu

Your Pleasure Starter Kit

Free resources to begin your journey

Free Download

Start your journey today.

Get my most popular free resources—everything you need to begin.

Sexy Breathwork Practice (12-min audio)
Yes, No, Maybe List to explore desires
Pleasure Mapping Guide to discover your body
Mindful Sex workshop recording

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Common Questions

Is this therapy?

No—I’m a coach and educator, not a therapist. My work complements therapy but focuses on education, embodiment, and skill-building. While therapy can help you become more stable, coaching is recommended to take you from stable to thriving!

What if I'm nervous?

That’s totally normal! So many of us feel nervous to talk about sex. I offer a warm, present, judgment-free space where you can explore at your own pace.

Do you work with all genders and orientations?

Absolutely. All identities, orientations, and relationship structures are celebrated here.

Is there touching involved?

Coaching is primarily talk-based with guided practices that you explore on your own.

Ready to feel more alive?

Start with a free discovery call. No pressure, just possibility.

Book Your Free Call