Sex as Performance
For so many people, sex can feel like a performance, a duty, or something we SHOULD do—rather than something rooted in authentic, embodied pleasure. Let’s talk about why this happens...
Men’s Conscious Sexuality Gathering: November Notes & Practices
Each month I host free online gatherings for men that want to have good conversations about sex and pleasure. These events are one of my service offerings to the community,...
Men’s Conscious Sexuality Gathering: October Notes & Practices
Take a peek at the communication skills and practices I shared during our October Men's Conscious Sexuality Gathering....
6 Sex Skills for Men to Have Deeper, More Erotic Sex
Erotic embodiment makes you a deeper, more profound lover. Learn six important skills to create a safe, exploratory space for deeper pleasure....
Dismantling Three Myths about Sex and Pleasure
There are a lot of myths in our culture about how sex changes over our lifetime, and so many of them are simply untrue. In this article I will tackle...
Sexual Healing for Men
What does sexuality mean to you, as a man? What aspects of your sexuality are joyful, and which are challenging for you? In this article, men’s sexuality coach Andrea Bertoli...
Playing the Edge: Edging Practice for Expanded Pleasure
Edging is the practice to learning about your body in new ways, exploring pleasure in different ways, and learning to hold more of your arousal....
6 Reasons You Feel Bored With Your Sex Life
Are you bored with your sex life? This is a hard question to ask—harder to answer. Two experts write about why you might feel bored in bed and ways to...
Why I Love Working with Men as a Sex Coach
Stepping into my work as a sex coach and relationship coach has allowed me to learn new ways to work with men that are as surprising as they are delightful....