Holistic Pleasure Coach

Musings on pleasure, Intimacy & Embodied Living

Thoughts, teachings, and reflections on sexuality, relationships, embodiment, Tantra, and the art of living a more connected life. Explore practical insights, personal stories, and resources designed to support your journey toward greater pleasure, self-awareness, and authentic connection.

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Men’s Conscious Sexuality Gathering: October Notes & Practices

Take a peek at the communication skills and practices I shared during our October Men's Conscious Sexuality Gathering....

Do You Need a Sex Coach?

Do you need a Sex Coach? Could your relationship benefit from some guidance and inspiration? Learn more about my work and how we might work together to help improve your...

6 Sex Skills for Men to Have Deeper, More Erotic Sex

Erotic embodiment makes you a deeper, more profound lover. Learn six important skills to create a safe, exploratory space for deeper pleasure....

Sex & Connection: How to Build the Ecosystem of Intimacy

Many (if not most) people need to feel connected in order to have sex. That means we for a lot of us, we need to build connection and intimacy in...

Mindful Sex for Men

In my sex coaching practice, I help people build stronger, more connected partnerships using both cognitive and somatic approaches. In this article I’ll share four of my favorite ways you...

The Mental Load & How It Affects Your Sex Life

The 'Mental Load' is a very real (and often overlooked) challenge in domestic partnerships. The Mental Load is all the unseen labor that is required to maintain a household and...